My husband and I come from two different worlds. He comes from a different stratosphere than I do. I don’t get along with his family, even before I ran away twice. They mistreated me while we were just dating, and I never really understood why until I looked at class differences and ableism. I canContinue reading “I Got Cinderella’d and It’s Not All Great”
My husband and I’s new relationship may seem unorthodox, but we know better days are ahead as we work together on our problems.
We’ve discovered that letting each other be open and vulnerable even over stuff the other thinks is stupid is the key to getting through our current situation. I’m no longer hearing monsters in the night.
Typically I try to paint as positive a light as possible of my husband and I’s relationship on this blog. This is partially because I try to do my part to build up our fledgling marriage, but I need to talk about something some of the recently diagnosed may be experiencing by their romantic partner: infantilization.Your parter is now the parent and you are now the child in the relationship. The equality you once sought and enjoyed is gone.
I’m going to be writing about trauma therapy and marriage again today, because that’s my life right now. This is not a Whiner McBabypants post where I talk about my specific trauma, rather, these are my reflections on life, love, and marriage as a disabled woman. You know when you just feel sad, and youContinue reading “The Safe Man”
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I like to write songs, and from time to time I think I make a good one. This one hasn’t been set to chords yet – and when it would be it’d be ukulele chords – but this is in 3/4 time and is a little indie pop/jazzy tone to it. Most songs I writeContinue reading “Song: Get Tired of Me”
Happy 3 month anniversary to my husband, Bear. Thank you for loving me through the bad times and the good, in sickness and health. #chronicillness
Keeping record of the good times is crucial to fighting chronic illness.
It’s almost a month left until my wonderful, creekside spoonie wedding, and I’m left with some thoughts. Communication is hard. Love is hard. It can be scary. Love is a literal battlefield, but as long as you and your partner are on the same team fighting for each other, it’s worth it. To take someoneContinue reading “The book of love”